Continuing on with the "How to find a Kinky Girlfriend" I'll answer this question: "Do you share your kinky side with friends and family or keep it a secret?" Both. Like substance use, unkind thoughts, and sexual proclivities, remember joke rules: 'read the room' and 'know your audience'. Zero in on your internal motivations when talking about such things - Are you at peace with yourself? From whom do you need validation, and why? At Thanksgiving dinner, would you tell your brother he under-salted the food? Are you trying to get a petty win over him by putting him down or are you showing l… 続きを読む

"How do I find a kinky girl like Serena?" Is a question I read every day. Here's the answer: They're everywhere, hiding in plain sight. But there's a catch: If they think you're trying to "find a kinky girl", they will go deeper into hiding. They do not want a man who is looking for a kinky girl. This is why they're so hard to find, and why trying to find them is a fool's errand. Instead, you have to change your mindset and let them come to you. Most people tune out after I tell them this - it turns out they wanted an easy button! "Fie, wonneth't a kinky manic pixie dream wench falleth fro… 続きを読む